Monday, 12 March 2018

Alfie Turns 7 and a Sketchers Shoes Review!

It's hard enough to believe that just 2 months ago I wrote that my Midge had turned 10. Now I am writing a post all about A's birthday which was last month; he turned 7! It's madness. 

Alfie was really lucky with his birthday. He had a party at home in Kent with Will who turned 9 the same week as him. It was lovely to do a joint party for them both just before they both had their actual birthdays. We got see Ember (who blogs at Relentlessly Purple) her partner Ken and their 2 little girls Eva and Issy. Both the boys had a nice time, Will did really well considering there was a lot of screaming from the younger ones and it was all a bit sensory overload for him. He was a lot happier than the photo shows though I promise!

A big birthday cake to share for the boys

James loved his party bag from Ember

Alfie had a family gathering back in Cornwall on his actually birthday. He got up in the morning and opened his gifts with Midge and I and then headed off to school where he got his birthday certificate and cake in assembly. When he arrived home some family had arrived to have dinner and share presents with him. It was lovely.

Showing off his birthday badge! They all love a big badge.

L and A posing on birthday morning.

A loved a Pikachu bag he got from his Auntie

Lastly, we celebrated by having a little pizza making party with a few of A's closest friends. They had fun playing around the house then stopping to make pizza and later eating that with some treats. Midge managed to escape the chaos of this party by hanging out with Grandma and making cupcakes! I don't blame her.

Getting ready to roll out the dough!

Making pizzas!

The pizza was a huge hit

I thought I did pretty well with the cake this year!

One of A's friends helped with the blowing out of the candles

A had some great gifts this year. He was over the moon with all the Pokemon presents he received, plus all the superhero bits and a large Lego ship to build (we are waiting until we move to do this in case it gets broken and we lose bits!) Footway sent A some really cool Sketchers that I want to show off below. The colour is awesome and the shoes are a huge hit with A because they are fast, super comfy and...they light up!!

A posing in his new Sketchers

The shoes have a cool on/off switch so he can show off the lights any time he wants!

His Pokemon GX Card set was a huge hit.

I think A certainly thought this birthday was a pretty good one. He's already counting down for the next one!

Wednesday, 28 February 2018

Rare Disease Day 2018 with The FSH Society

Today is Rare Disease Day.

A day to raise more awareness and hopefully more money to fund research into finding cures for all those who are affected by rare diseases. The European union has so far recorded that there are approximately 7,000 rare diseases.

My partner Martyn (who blogs at Inside Martyns Thoughts) suffers from Facioscapluohumeral Muscular Dystrophy (FSHD for short) This is a rare disease which affects between 2,000-2,500 people in the UK. 
Several generations of a family are often affected by the condition. It can be diagnosed at any age and can vary widely between individuals, even within the same family. One-third of those with the condition are unaware of the symptoms right into old age.

FSHD is caused by a genetic mutation which causes a toxic protein to be produced in the muscle, killing the muscle cells. There is currently no treatment available targeting the underlying genetic causes of FSHD.  The FSH Society is constantly researching and raising funds for a cure to this progressive illness. 

This year for rare disease day The FSH Society wants everyone to share their rare talent. So first, I will share the best unique talent I have! Share yours online and use #fshraretalent so everyone can see yours!

Now I know not everyone can touch their nose with their tongue so I'm going to be proud of this talent!! I'm also donating to The FSH Society which you can do too whether you choose to share your talent or not. You can sponsor them by clicking this link.

Wednesday, 14 February 2018

Adidas Sport Performance trainers from Footway ~ Review

Like most parents, I like to get my children to write me a list of gift ideas for their birthdays so I have some idea of what I can buy them and a few ideas to float around to family who ask me "Please tell me what I can get them I have no idea!" This year both of mine have asked for new trainers. Now, lucky for me I was approached by Footway who offered me some shoes to review. 

I was really pleased to go through their site which has many different types of shoe to choose from. I decided Midge would benefit from some shoes which would be comfortable and fit her well giving her feet some support. I chose the Adidas Sport Performance shoes and they have gone down very well!

We decided to test them out on the first snow day of the year whilst away in Kent. Midge loves the blue design and said it was a nice change from the usual black, pink or purple colours on most trainers she has looked at in stores before. 

What are Midges thoughts?

"I think these Adidas trainers are fab. They are really comfy and easy to both walk and run in. I haven't had any sores on my feet either which I sometimes get when I have new shoes to wear. I  love the colours, none of my friends have these trainers which is really cool, they've all asked where I got them from! When these are too small I think I'd like some more!"

Midge certainly had fun trying out her shoes in the park. Although there wasn't much snow she did get to test them out on the snowiest parts of the park and our walk.

A was kindly sent some shoes too and I think he will love them, I can't wait to show them with you next week after his birthday!

Sunday, 28 January 2018

Turning 10 (Both Mother and Daughter!)

My beautiful girl turned 10 on the 17th January and as far as birthdays go this was indeed a milestone. Not only did Midge turn 10 but it marked 10 years for me as a mother to this gorgeous girl. As she was born into this world as was I, as a mother. What a journey it has been. 

Midge was so excited for her birthday she had been planning it since before Christmas! I kept begging her to let me get through Christmas but she wouldn't let me. I started noting down the gifts she wanted and passing the list to friends and family. Her main wish was books, much to my delight. 

She woke up super early, which never happens on the morning of the 17th, dragging her brother and I out of bed to see her gifts waiting for her. She had gifts from her brother and myself as well as one from her grandad in France which she loved. She got a lot of books just as she asked for.

 Opening her gifts in the morning

Posing with all her David Walliams books

The morning was interrupted by the showing of the cake and more annoyingly by the school run. Yep, school doesn't stop for birthdays! We left earlier to get some cakes from the local shop before heading off. I got to spend the day getting bits in for our family tea and I had more bits to buy for the upcoming party. 

Super pink birthday cake

So my 'little' girl 10 and it marked a decade of motherhood for me too. She had a lovely day at school, a family tea and a wonderful weekend with friends, she even had a friend come for a sleepover which was a lovely way to end her special day.

Happy 10th Baby Girl!

Sunday, 21 January 2018

Book Review: I Swapped My Brother by Jo Simmons

The Blurb:

'I can get a new brother? On the internet?' Jonny muttered. 'Oh sweet mangoes of heaven!'
Everyone has dreamed of being able to get rid of their brother or sister at one time or another - but for Jonny, the dream is about to become a reality with! What could be better than someone awesome to replace Ted, Jonny's obnoxious older brother.
But finding the perfect brother isn't easy, as Jonny discovers when Sibling Swap sends him a line of increasingly bizarre replacements: first a merboy, then a brother raised by meerkats, and then the ghost of Henry the Eighth! What's coming next?! Suddenly old Ted isn't looking so bad. But can Jonny ever get him back?

What we thought:

We loved this book! Both Midge and I had a real giggle reading I Swapped My Brother and we even shared a few chapters with A before bed. We all thought it was funny that Jonny swaps his brother Ted and gets all these ridiculous sibling replacements. The illustrations are perfectly suited to this book, are a lot of fun and we loved the style of writing. 
 Midge decided it would be fun if we could all think about who we would swap our siblings for! 
As a youngster I often wanted to swap my siblings. I'm not sure what or who for exactly, probably a bar chocolate to be fair, but A had no trouble in revealing his choice...A Pokemon. Like we didn't see that one coming! Midge decided she would simply just want a girl so she had a sister to play with.

Midge really found this book a light and good read. She is moving soon and will gain 2 brothers and has just learnt she will be having a baby brother in a few months so I think she may come back to this book when she gets fed up of her 3 bothers up in Kent and a newborn very tired one in Cornwall!

A must read book that will make you laugh out loud.

We give this book 5/5! 

About the author:

Jo Simmons began her working life as a journalist. Her first fiction series for children, Pip Street, was inspired by her own kids' love of funny fiction, and two Super Loud Sambooks followed. In addition to children's fiction, she co-wrote a humorous parenting book, Can I Give Them Back Now?: The Aargh To Zzzzzz Of Parenting, published by Square Peg. Jo lives in Brighton with her husband, two boys and a scruffy formerly Romanian street dog. I Swapped My Brother on the Internet is her first book for Bloomsbury.

About the illustrator

Nathan Reed has been a professional illustrator since graduating from Falmouth College of Arts in 2000. He has illustrated Christopher Edge's How to Write Your Best Story Ever and the Elen Caldecott's Marsh Road Mysteries Series. His most recent picture book is Samson the Mighty Flea by Angela McAllister. He was shortlisted for the Serco Prize for Illustration in 2014. When he's not illustrating he can be found with his two boys and a football on Peckham Rye Common.

Book Info:

Title: I Swapped My Brother on the Internet
Author: Jo Simmons
Illustrator: Nathan Reed
Release Date: 11th January 2018
Genre: MG Humour
Publisher: Bloomsbury
Format: Paperback

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Monday, 15 January 2018

Our Year: 2017 A Look Back

Hello! Happy New Year to all my lovely readers, I hope January is treating you well. It's well known for being the toughest month in the year so if you're having a rough time; I do hope the future is looking brighter.

I wanted to share a little re-cap of my families year. It was a hard year 2017; we lost my much loved Uncle Michael in January, my marriage broke down completely in March, our lovely dog Peppa had several illnesses (she's okay but the bank balance is going to take a while to recover!) and my mental health went pretty much from one end to the other and back again a few times over. Stressful! 

However, there was a lot more good to 2017 and I want to share them with you all here.


My Midge turned 9 in 2017 and had an awesome little sleepover and tea party. She got all the little presents she wanted and had an amazing day. I got to spend time with her and her cousins which was lovely. This week my baby girl will be 10. TEN! 

My Little A turned 6 and in a few weeks he will be 7, super scary. He had a party at home with some friends from school, an Iron Man cake and lots of goodies. Shortly after his birthday he went on a school trip with his class to Heligan Gardens which I volunteered to go on as well. It was a great day for everyone who went.

In March my Aunt had her big 6-0 which I was chief organiser of. I could not have done it without other family members helping but it was done and was a lovely night. On her actual birthday my brother came down and we surprised her by meeting at a lovely restaurant in Marazion for lunch and homemade birthday cake.
Little A was put forward to take part in his schools' sports event which is an all inclusive sports day for all children of different abilities throughout all the year groups. All the children who took part got a special lunch and drink plus a medal to remember the day.

April was Easter! It was tough because Easter fell pretty quick after the children's dad left but we picked ourselves up and went over to my parents for a night. They loved their Easter eggs from me and from Pops and Grandma and even got some from their Aunt who made a surprise visit.
We also had Trevithivk Day in April which I always enjoy. I actually managed to get my parents over for this too and they both enjoyed themselves. We loved all the steam engines and the vintage cars plus the stalls and Cornish acts in the market. A lovely day to remember!

Our pooch became poorly in May! We found some lumps and she wasn't herself. Luckily the vet saw her really quickly and removed everything. She was back to her normal self shortly after and the lumps were nothing to worry about; phew! 

The children had their sports event in June and they both did well. Midge is not very sporty at all (like me!) I got a photo of her after doing 3 laps of the school field, she did so well. I even did the parents race which was a total failure. My trousers started falling down and every man, woman and child saw my butt crack...and some of my butt..for shame.

Although newly split I had been talking to many friends who were helping me over the initial shock of my break up. It only took me a few weeks to realise that my ex leaving was the best thing for us as individuals. We had lost a lot of love and care for each other and although we had got stuck before, this was one rut we weren't getting out of. You get a lot of clarity after even just a short space of time, my friends were there to hear all of this. One person was Martyn, the more we messaged and then phoned the more we got to know each other without anything being there. 
I soon realised that I wanted to meet Martyn and see what he was like in person. We had a date in June, our first meet up ever and got on so well. It was a real moment of realising you've been with someone all this time who is never interested in you and you them and then there is this person who has similar interests to me. Wonderful! 

In August I got to spend some of the holidays in Kent with Martyn and his boys. Our children met for the first time and got on really well. After the fun in Kent we met up with my brother,sister and my parents in Nottingham for my mums birthday. My brother caught a lovely photo of the children and I:

September was back to school month! Midge entered year 5 and A started year 2. Both got on really well and had really great first days. I have always taken the back to school photo just as my mum did with my siblings and I each year. It's so great looking back on their photos and seeing how they have changed.

October was ace. In the half term it was my birthday and we were all in Kent again. A birthday treat for both Martyn and I was a tour of Harry Potter Studios from my Mum and sister. We had an awesome time and I hope to do another tour (my fourth!) again soon.

Finally we had Christmas. I thought it would be odd going away and not being near family at this time of year but I saw my Aunt and Gran before I left and then we had a wonderful blended family Christmas at Martyn's with the boys too. It was a fairly standard family Christmas and I enjoyed myself as did the kids. Martyn came back to Cornwall with the boys and I and I so loved being tucked up in bed with someone and seeing the new year in with them. I can't remember when I last did that!

2018 is going to be one busy year! We are making our big move to be a blended family in April so I am already in moving mode. We have applied for schools but have our eyes open here and know that home schooling for a short period of time may have to happen for one or both of my children. There will be times when being away from family will be difficult but I am excited to move away from Cornwall and start a new journey.

What are your plans for 2018?


Wednesday, 20 December 2017

The Dickens Festival 2017

A few weeks ago I travelled up to Kent to visit Mr K and the boys. We like to try to see each other at least once a month and I decided I would travel up to see him this time. We did our usual thing of chilling out, doing some odd jobs around the house and entertaining the boys. They showed me their neighbourhood's Christmas lights which was lovely and they took me to Rochester for its annual Dickens Festival.

I had so much fun despite the crowds. It was really hard to see the stalls in the castle ground so sadly I missed out on that. There were so many people and in these situations it's hard enough for able bodied people to get around let alone Martyn who was in his wheelchair for this day trip. We moved away from the castle pretty quickly (okay, as quick as we could!) I got to sample some homemade jams from Joannes Preserves they were delicious. I bought fig jam and rhubarb jam which was mine and Will's favourite. 

Joanne makes so many delcious goodies! I can't wait to try more

We walked around a little to see some other stalls and stopped briefly to listen to the band playing some popular songs. It felt very festive. I took the opportunity as we went through town to get a photo of the house Charles Dickens stayed in when he wrote some of his famous novels.

We all had a nice stroll down through the town. There were snow machines which were blowing 'snow' out every few minutes much to the boys delight. We saw so many people dressed up in some amazing outfits; it's so wonderful to see so many people get into the festival spirit and doing so simply for the love and joy; even stopping to take photos with us and many others around us.

The boys loved the snow!

Faboulous steam punk outfits!

We saw some of the parade which was very busy but there were even more people dressed up looking amazing. We all got pretty cold around this point and decided we should head home to all warm up and grab some fish and chips. Walking home as the sun was starting set was beautiful.

An almost family photo! I'm looking forward to taking one next year and squeezing us all in!

The sun starting to set over the River Medway

I had a lovely day despite how crowded it was and how difficult it was to get the wheelchair around. I'm looking forward to going to the summer festival which I hear is really good too. Hopefully we can plan when the days will be less busy; a Saturday was never going to be not busy but it was worth going just so I could experience a bit of the place I am soon going to be living in!

Cupcake Mumma